I'm so over this Blizzard coma that everyone has been forced into in Chicago! I'm happy to say that most roads are clear and the sun is shining, but for many relationships its still a whirling blizzard! I have been getting phone calls from all of my girlfriends about how their mates are really acting well lets keep it 100 like A*holes! Well this got me thinking.. Do women have too high of expectations of men? I personally require attention, be it texts through out the day to see how I'm doing or just a phone call saying the guy misses me and wants to see me! My one girlfriend who will remain nameless.. doesn't think that seeing her boyfriend at least 4 times a week is sufficient. I honestly laughed at her because I couldn't believe with the amount of distance between them they were able to still see each other that often and still talk everyday! I don't judge her for her demands nor do I envy her for pretty involved mate. I think women should take a step back and really look at their situation and just think am I fortunate to be in this relationship, am I asking for too much or is he not giving enough? I think woman know their man's limits and coming from A LOT of previous dating experience I have learned you MUST be upfront from the beginning and what you accept in the beginning of the relationship or what you choose to "tolerate" is what you are going to get the entire duration of that relationship! Currently I am single and trying to take it for what it is so in light of being in the house I have been indulging in episodes of Sex and the City and watching an oldie but goodie The First Wives Club, the movie for those who have been done in by their dreadful ex's laugh and learn some revenge tips that I'm sure we all wish we could put in place.. well sometimes ;-)